Robyn Vogel

Robyn Vogel is a love and intimacy teacher based near Boston, Massachusetts, and the founder of Come Back to Love, the name she gives to both her method and her community. Losing her mother as a young girl shaped much of her early adult life, and she describes a turning point in her early thirties when she began to believe that close, joyful connection was possible for her too. In the years since she has studied with tantra teachers for around a quarter of a century, trained in Internal Family Systems and earned two master's degrees. In 2026 Koehler Books published Come Back to Love: A Path to Healing, which mixes memoir with the exercises of her Four Gates approach.

Her work is aimed mainly at single people, and some couples, who feel that love keeps slipping out of reach. Sessions and groups combine guided meditation, body-based awareness, conversation about the parts of us that hold back, and tantra-informed exercises done fully clothed. She runs local puja circles, an online membership and an eight-week programme, takes a small number of private clients, and leads retreats in Costa Rica and at Kripalu. She also hosts a weekly radio show and podcast of the same name, and trains coaches and other practitioners in her method.